Self-Love vs. Self-Hate: Listening to Your Higher Self

Hey Style Circle Fam,

Today, I want to dive into a topic that’s close to my heart: the difference between self-love and self-hate, and how they connect to our higher self and ego. This exploration is vital for those of us on a journey to true self-awareness and authentic personal style.

Self-love is the awareness of your higher self.

This powerful download captures the essence of what it means to truly care for ourselves. Self-love is more than just a trendy phrase; it’s a deep awareness and acceptance of our higher self. When we tap into this awareness, we begin to make choices that nurture our well-being, our bodies and reflect our true essence.

On the flip side, self-hate often feels like a laser focus on our perceived flaws. This is the ego talking. The ego loves to point out what’s wrong with us, making us hyper-aware of how we think others perceive us. It’s the voice that tells us we’re not good enough, thin enough, stylish enough—the list goes on.

How to Know Where You Are:

1. Body Care:

Are you nurturing your body with love and care, or are you ignoring its needs? Self-love means listening to your body, feeding it nourishing food, moving it in ways that feel good, and resting when needed. Your body is your vessel; treating it with kindness is a direct reflection of your higher self-awareness.

2. Listening to Your Body:

Pay attention to what your body is telling you. Are you feeling tired, stressed, or out of balance? These signals are important. Self-love involves tuning in and addressing these needs, whether it’s through relaxation, exercise, or seeking help. Ignoring these signals often leads to burnout and further disconnect from our true selves.

3. Focus on Perception:

Are you more concerned with how others perceive you than how you feel about yourself? This focus on external validation is the ego at work. Shifting your attention inward, to how you feel and what you need, helps diminish the power of the ego and strengthens your connection to your higher self.

Practical Steps to Cultivate Self-Love:

- Daily Check-Ins:

Take a few minutes each day to ask yourself how you’re feeling. What does your body need right now? This simple practice can help you stay connected to your inner self and make decisions that support your well-being.

- Positive Affirmations:

Replace negative self-talk with positive affirmations. Remind yourself of your worth and value every day. This shift in mindset can help diminish the power of the ego and reinforce your higher self-awareness.

- Mindful Movement:

Engage in physical activities that you enjoy and that make you feel good. Whether it’s yoga, dancing, or a brisk walk, moving your body mindfully can help you connect more deeply with yourself.

- Self-Care Rituals:

Incorporate self-care rituals into your routine. This could be a relaxing bath, a skincare routine, or simply spending time doing something you love. These acts of self-care reinforce your commitment to the well-being of your body and higher self.

Remember, self-love is a journey, not a destination. By listening to your body, addressing its needs, and focusing inward rather than on external perceptions, you can cultivate a deeper connection with your higher self. This connection is the foundation of true personal style and authenticity.

Stay stylish and aligned, and remember to love yourself fiercely.

With style and love,

Angela Denae

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